What happens when you let go?

Most people think learning to swim is about getting to the side. Kicking and pulling with all your might until you can grab something solid.

And yes, swimming is a lifesaving sport. We do need to know how to save ourselves.

But in my experience, what really shifts things isn’t more effort. The harder I try to find each shape in the water, the more robotic I feel. When I give myself permission to let go and send my energy forward, I flow.

The answer isn’t effort. It’s permission.

Permission to slow down.

To feel.

To stop performing.

To trust that being in the water isn’t just about surviving—it’s about becoming.

Does that sound familiar?

Do you give yourself that kind of permission in life? To pause? To feel? To let go of the constant doing—or chasing what’s next—even for a moment?

To trust that come what may, all we have is each moment—to greet fully… or hand it over to your phone, your inbox, your to do list, lingering disappointments, or fear of the unknown.

Sometimes that permission is quiet. A softened breath. A moment of ease.

Other times, it comes as a reckoning—a reminder of what we’ve been carrying, and a chance to let go.

What would it look like to give yourself permission today?

To pause?

To listen?

To stop trying to hold it all together?

I’ll share more next time about how this connects to the water—and what happens when we stop trying to “do it right.”

Until then, I invite you to notice:

Where are you gripping? And what happens when you let go? Hit reply, I’m listening.

More soon,

Shannon

P.S. If you’re in the Rogue Valley, I’m excited to announce that I’m offering an Introduction of Efficient Freestyle Swimming class at Rogue X on Wednesdays at noon starting June 4th. It’s on page 6 of the program guide, you can register through RogueXMedford.com.